Things to remember

Embrace your destiny, go with the flow, let things take their course
This is for the best..

Also remember what your dreams are, and that you have every right to pursue them.
Look ahead, not behind..one cannot move forward while one looks back. let the past be a memory, a lesson at best, if you like, and that's about it. There is more to it than one has seen in life, and one should reach out and jump into it, prepared or otherwise.

Eventually we all learn to swim.